Dating 4 months but not exclusive
”If a guy won’t call you his girlfriend after a month (two months tops), then I would say it means that he’s enjoying the relationship exactly where it is and at this moment will not take it any further unless he is inspired to.I guess the simple answer as to why he won’t call you his girlfriend is because he doesn’t have to.
But beyond that, I would especially recommend that you keep your options open and you continue keeping up with all your other social activities that do not involve him: seeing your friends, attending any functions you like to go to, etc.My recommendation is to avoid badgering him about the topic.Bringing it up once is enough, So what makes a guy want to call you his girlfriend?And from a guy’s perspective, when a relationship gets like this, it becomes much less likely for a guy to want to stay.
Why would the guy want to deepen a relationship when it doesn’t feel good and seems to only be getting worse?
’ I know he had a painful breakup with his girlfriend before me which I think might be a part of this, so I’m trying to be understanding but I don’t think one thing should have anything to do with the other.